No one is ever a pro, no one knows themselves fully and therefore we are constantly learning about the external and internal elements and it's a damn good thing, or else it would all get boring. Subversive Submissive is a blog by subversivesub on her explorations of BDSM. In her recent post she thinks she has discovered a foot fetish within.

So here is the twist, in her learning about it, her BDSM 101 section is loaded with clearing up cliches and false facts about people in this milieu and we can learn from her very clear points she sets out.

Being a submissive or masochist does not mean that a person has an interest in receiving nonconsensual pain, abuse, or rape. It does not mean that she has an inherent sense of worthlessness, is cowardly or “mousy” in her relations to others, or is incapable of standing up for herself

Feet Permalink... click on the BDSM 101 tab for the point